Hiddey-Ho there Scribblers ~ J Monkeys
coming atcha from sultry northern Connecticut. Fellow Scribe, Jennifer
Fusco posted on Facebook that she’s going to be tackling the subject of
Work-Life Balance in some kind of public forum coming up and that got
me to thinking…and trying out a balancing method that’s worked well for
me in the past.
Well, it worked on vacation…sure that’s a
potential stumbling block, but I put it into practice today to see what
might come of it, to surprising results.
Have you ever seen this movie? It’s a Hugh Grant flick from a few years back. Now I’m a huge Hugh fan…I have him singing from Music and Lyrics on my iPod and I thought the Pirate Captain from the recent kids movie Pirates
had his speech cadence even though it sounded nothing like him. Turned
out I was right. I’m that kind of dedicated fan. Mr. Grant, you are
welcome.
Now this isn’t one of my favorites of his films, (that would probably be Music & Lyrics or Love Actually)
but there is an interesting bit where he breaks the day down into 30
minute units. Hugh’s character is a middle-aged rich kid living off the
fortune left him by his one-hit-wonder father. He’s idle and bored –
hence the need to fill his time in manageable pieces.
So Hugh lives 30 minutes at a time.
Sometimes he’d spend two units on something, like racquetball or
something. I tried this on a WICKED restful vacation a number of years
ago (pre-kid.) I spent 5 days at a dude ranch in Arizona. We woke up
and spent a unit at breakfast when Cookie rang the triangle, then went
for a 3-unit trail ride, took a unit long nap, ate lunch for another
unit or two, napped another unit away, rode for a couple more units,
frolicked in the pool for a unit, ate again – supper was at least two
units, then played games until it was time spend a unit or more staring
at a night sky filled with more stars than I’ve ever seen before or
since. I’ve never been so rested. It was GREAT! We lived one unit at a
time.
So – today, I spent my free time (read
that as kid-free time when I can actually accomplish something) by
units. I set the oven timer for 2 units (an hour for the math
challenged) and did random housework. When the timer buzzed, I set it
again for another 2 units. I spent these units working on a project for
which I actually get paid (exciting thing!). Upon buzzing, I put that
project away and spent a unit inputting edits to my DIY Publishing book,
then a unit folding four loads of laundry. Finally, I spent a unit on
lunch with a side order of The West Wing (the Supremes from Season 5,
one of my favorites) and headed out to the kids’ school for a few hours
of volunteer time.
Now, I didn’t accomplish much of any one
thing, but I did touch on many of the things I need to work on –
housework, stuff I get paid to do, writing and not unimportantly, some me
time. That is what I call work-life balance, people. Sure I have an
overwhelming amount of stuff still on my plate, but hey – it was a good
day!
Today’s secret:
Sometimes, wisdom comes in strange places…or when you’ve got 30
different things to do – breaking your time up into focused chunks can
help you keep those plates spinning.
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