Thea Devine here, basking in the glow from having attended my 50th
high school reunion. Honestly, I never thought I’d want to go to any
reunion. Had second thoughts about that for my 25th, but I was a week
too late. So I made certain people knew where to find me for this
momentous year.
50 years since high school. FIFTY YEARS!!! OMG!! That’s surreal.
Can’t possibly be true. It feels like I just graduated. I’m still
seventeen — aren’t I? In my heart, soul, and day-to-day life I am.
High school is just that close to the grain of who I was, who I became
But thinking about attending the reunion was kind of scary. How
would it all break out? Would there still be the same cliques, the same
alliances, the same feelings, even? Would I still feel like I was at
the prom without a date?
In the end, none of that happened. It turned out to be a lovely
event. One classmate (male) called it “endearing.” It seemed as if my
classmates picked up the conversation as if it were yesterday. There
wasn’t a missed beat, once everyone identified themselves. And husbands
and wives who’d attended were folded in like they were old friends.
The conversation never ended; it just shifted from group to group as we
performed a “let’s catch up” do-si-do.
You probably know how this all goes. Football game, cocktail party,
talk talk talk; tour of the high school (greatly expanded since our day
to the point where, given all the arts and music studios and shop
choices, we all felt we wanted to go back ); lunch in the cafeteria
(not greatly changed); a visit with two former teachers, now in their
eighties; a disorienting tour of the town, wholly changed from when we
lived there; cocktail party #2 and a banquet, and more talk talk talk.
We received a Then and Now memory book with contact info and
self-written biographies, and a mug commemorating the reunion packed
with a bar of goats’ milk soap made by a classmate. Pretty neat.
I wanted everyone to come home with me. I loved seeing them all, I
connected with several old friends and I hope we keep in touch. A
weekend seemed like too little time to bridge 50 years. I wished it had
been a week. There was such a nice sense of cohesion and a recognition
that we do have a shared history, and that neither time nor distance
can take that away, whenever or wherever we might meet again.
You might wonder if I was even thinking novelistically about
childhood, secrets, mean girl alliances, hot and heavy romances, vicious
hates, undying teen loves, and long simmering vengeance.
I told people I was. I mean, really, why else was I there?
What do you think?
Have you gone to a class reunion? What did you think? Was it
“endearing” or was it “enduring”? Did you connect with or disconnect
from former classmates? Would you go to another (I would)?
Thea Devine is the author whose books defined erotic historical
romance. She’s the author of 25 historical and contemporary erotic
romances, including THE DARKEST HEART and the upcoming BEYOND THE
NIGHT. The reissue of her erotic contemporary romance, HIS LITTLE BLACK
BOOK, is available now.
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